We drive down to Topsail Island from Raleigh on weekends during the summer (about 2.5 hour drive each way). Not nearly as busy nor as difficult to park as the Wrightsville Beach area to the south. Topsail is not even close to being as touristy as the Myrtle Beach area. We've rented houses on Topsail from Century 21 Realty which are nice depending on your selection. Of all the NC beaches, we choose Topsail because it's easy to access off I-40 coming down from Raleigh, and also because it's completely non-touristy with only one or two hotels I can think of the entire stretch of island, the rest in private homes. Even in the height of summer, you can park pretty much anywhere on a street or at one of several public access points, cross the dunes, and stake your claim to a wide expanse of beach with only a handful of others around you at any one time. The wave action is better than in Hilton Head or the Charleston area, where it tends to be calmer, at least in my opinion, so that's good for body surfing. Topsail also has warm water, which you can swim in from about mid-May through end of September. The water never really gets that cold, it's more the air temperatures and wind that will keep you out of it. You'll see a lot of people fishing from the shoreline at this beach. The bad side to Topsail is its almost completely devoid of flora/fauna. I don't know why, but there aren't a lot of trees or shrubbery like you'll see north of here in places like Pine Knoll Shores. I know there used to be a military installation here, so perhaps they bombed/destroyed all the fauna. Big surprise there. It really is just a sand bar now. Also, the majority of houses are older, blue collar beach shacks. As blue collar as a million dollar beach property can be, that is. This is no Hilton Head or Isle of Palms. It's really just a relaxing place to rent a smaller house and spend time at the beach with family. You won't even find that many restaurants, except a few things around Surf City and across the bridge on the mainland. On rainy days, though, you're about 45 minutes from Wilmington and all the shops and restaurants at the new Mayfaire Town Center along Military Cutoff Road. A good evening diversion. Downtown Wilmington along the Cape Fear River is also very nice with loads of good restaurants.
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