We have our annual vcation to hawaii coming up this week and our 15 year old is saying she won't get on the plane. she has developed a fear of flying over water ever since the plan from Rio to Paris fell out of the sky. The thought of forcing her on the plane does not make for a good vacation. We took her to a therapist this week and she said she felt better and then today said...no way I am NOT getting on the plane! We have suggested medication but she still refuses. I am heartsick as I see our wonderful vacation either cancelled, without her, or with an angry anxious kid....ugh. Any thoughts?