Hi TA family.
My husband and I have recently decided to take a period of separation. I feel like I have lost myself in our marriage and kids and am a shadow of a person. I have always wanted to travel and see the world - I grew up in England and have visited most of Europe and Australia as well as short stays in Singapore and Malaysia (Langkawi). I now live in New Zealand.
I want to get away - he has said he's happy to look after the kids while I do so. Thing is, I'm not sure what to do. Where do I go? I've always wanted to go to Petra, see the Northern lights, and generally immerse myself in the culture and beauty of the world. Perhaps a slightly romantic wonderlust type view of it, but there you go.
I would be on my own as a young white female. I would like to feel busy and not lonely, but have time out and relax as well, if that makes sense. Should I do a tour? Should I just grab a backpack and wing it?