My husband and I (ages 32 and 34) are usually not into loud discos and casinos but do enjoy going out for drinks/dancing. We are looking for bars, restaurants, or clubs with a live band playing Caribbean-style music ... steel drum band, calypso, etc. with dancing.... something that we can't get at home! Does this type of nightlife exist in Aruba or would we need to look at other islands? We were also considering Turks and Caicos although much more expensive there but are willing to pay more if necessary for the experience we are looking for. I am about to book Bacuti but am still hesitating. My husband still thinks that Aruba might be too commercialized and not have the more authentic Caribbean vibe we are looking for. Please help! Thanks.