Thinking of going to Barbados for 10 days but can't decide which hotel as there are negatives and positives about them all. Going with my husband and 3 kids, girl of 21 and 2 boys 18 & 14. Want a bit of night life, not too noisy though, some luxury and beautiful beach + good fresh food. Looked at Colony Club, Crystal Cove, Turtle Beach, Coral Reef........ really stuck. Any ideas?