I'm leaning towards the Santa Barbara resort (all-in option), but I'd like to confirm a few things:
(1) Which of the two is closer to a "luxury" resort?
(2) Which offers better food?
(3) Which offers better service?
(4) Which has less kids, or is more quiet?
I think SB is the answer to all 4 but I want to confirm my understand. The resorts in the Caribbean we've enjoyed most are the Couples resorts in Barbados and some aspects of the Sandals resorts, so we're looking for a similar vacation (though I get that these two resorts aren't adults only).