We have narrowed our vacation down to these three resorts. We are a young 45 year old couple looking to stay at a resort that isn't too stuffy. By no means are we looking to do shots and dance on the bar, or are we looking for a Hedonism type place! Some reviews for some adults only resorts use the words "laid back" and "quiet". Quiet and laid back are fine, as long as there is some livelyness mixed in.. Also, not sure if there are beach bars at these locations. Any insight other advice to on these resorts would be greatly appreciated!!