After readings posts on different areas of St. Maarten/St. Martin, I am confused. I have only been to Orient Beach (cruise day trip) and it was gorgeous but may be too quiet for two girls traveling in March. So, I began looking elsewhere. The Holland House looks great but I am reading posts that say no one stays in Phillipsburg. Why? Is it not safe? Is it too commercialized and unattractive? Also, Sonest Maho was recommended. Is it nice? What about Grand Case? HELP..Traveling here in March and don't want to rent a car, don't want to be too removed from great restaurants and "some" nightlife, but would like a very nice beach. Am I asking too much :)?