My husband and I want to take a Caribbean vacation over Thanksgiving. I've been doing so much research it's all running together. We can't decide between Barbados, Aruba, Antigua, and St. Martin. We want nice, but not mega resort accommodations, more like a boutique type hotel. Also, we want to be able to get out and see the local culture without it being uber touristy, not to mention safety. We're not Rockefellars or anything, but we also don't want to stay in a hostel. Any suggestions from you experts would be much appreciated!