I am in the early stages of planning a trip for our extended family to celebrate a number of milestones in June 2010 (Yes, I know it's a while away.) We will be traveling with our 2 sons (will be 18 and 19), our in-laws who will hopefully be celebrating early retirement, my brother and his wife, and my mother in her early 70s. My husband and I are considering renewing our vows on this trip as well. We would be looking to stay in probably more of a villa type arrangement. Relaxation, nice beaches, outdoor activities (hiking, snorkeling, fishing for my father-in-law) are more of a priority than nightlife or shopping. Would the BVI be a good choice, and if so which island? I had also been looking at St. John. Any help would be most appreciated.