How do I tell a friend that I only want her and her husband to join my husband and me next year in Cancun is "if she's not pregnant"? (We haven't booked yet.)
She told us a month ago that they want to come with us next winter. But now she's talking about getting pregnant this summer and how cute she'll look in her bikini with her pregnant belly!
I know it sounds horrible, but it's a waste of my money to book an all-inclusive trip knowing that I'll be the one stuck sitting in the shade, sober with her while everyone else is out partying it up. Honestly, my husband and I would have way more fun going alone that with her not being able to do the same things that we enjoy on our vacations (like drinking and sitting in the sun all day).
It's not a matter of if I can have a good time with my pregnant friend, it's a matter of my decision being I don't want to travel with her if she's pregnant! We planned this trip for just the two of us and they decided to tag along (and we said okay because they didn't mention getting pregnant at that time).
Any suggestions on breaking it to her without hurting her feelings or our friendship?