I'd like to spend a couple nights in the Maroma area with my sister (in our 50's). We want to relax, have good cocktails/decent food, and be on an outstanding white sand beach. We don't care if there's nightlife and have no preference as to AI or not (although i haven't had much luck w AI's in the past). It's between SMB, Maroma Resort and Royal Hideaway. Am I splitting hairs between the 3? I'd appreciate any thoughts from those with experience to help make a choice. Oh, and I don't care for piped in loud music & whistle blowing for volleyball - does that eliminate one? Thanks!