Any thoughts on how these resorts stack up against each other? Beach (not just to walk on but to swim, how crowded), pools (how crowded, ease of finding a chair and shade), food, drinks, room quality, type of people. My husband and I are in our late 30s and early 40s and we're looking more for quiet luxury than a party pool scene. But....we do want to have some options for a late-night lounge or place to hang out. Thanks in advance!