My mother, 24 year old daughter and I are planning a short trip July 5 - 9 in this area. We are coming from Ohio, planning a stop at Harney and Sons and relaxing in Saybrook. We enjoy touring old homes, tea rooms, lighthouses, natural waterfalls, flower gardens, boat rides, shelling, bike rides, walking tours, dining on the waterfront and staying in bed and breakfasts. Essex's train and boat ride looks like something we might enjoy, as well as Gillette's Castle. I am also considering Allegra farm for a carriage ride and lunch at the soda fountain, We enjoy more out of the way quaint places to touristy urban areas. Can you help me plan my itinerary?