I am planning a weekend getaway on a cabin in Asheville, NC for my DH 30th birthday. A bunch of his friends will be going to surprise him. I am debating whether or not to take our 4 month old baby. This will be the first time we leave him but I concerned if will be safe for him to go through plane, car drive and cold for a weekend. Also, I am sure we won't be able to enjoy things the same if we have to be taking care of him. One of his friends going is taking their 1 year old and insist on me taking the baby. What should I do? Experience anyone?