There are so many areas to stay in, i'm overwhelmed! i'm sure they are all nice places but what are your suggestions for a 31 year old couple doing Hawaii for the first time? nothing too touristy. we want off the beaten path. we are budegt travelers so we will be looking for a cottage, yurt or something similar but on the beach. we are looking to relax, not days packed with adventures though we do want some adventure. any tips, suggestions etc. Thanks!