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OMG, I am in heaven

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OMG, I am in heaven

My husband was talking to his Mom. She was widowed last month. Took care of father in law for years and years. Dh asked her if there was a trip she would love to do before her health declines. She said Hawaii. My husband told her I would be so happy to go with her so guess what? The 2 of us are going to go this summer. I have been 2 times, but not in several years. Hawaii if my favorite place to vacation. 2 weeks, 3 islands.

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Hawaii is one of the best places ever to help a person heal from losing a loved one. What a wonderful time you two ladies have ahead of you. Enjoy the planning for this special trip. My condolences to your family on the loss of your family member. The Hawaii forums are so helpful with planning island trips! Deb

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Please handle with care. It's a natural reaction to think that a nice trip will help someone with the loss of a spouse. But it can be tough. Very tough.

Do you have to go in the middle of the summer - high season for families?

So sorry to hear about your father-in-law.

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What a great trip to look forward too. Hawaii is a great place for healing. I went one month after losing my dear sister unexpectedly, and even though there were tears and sadness I could feel her presence.

May you have a wonderful blessed trip.

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What a beautiful thing to do with your mother in law. And how lovely of your husband to arrange it. Blessings to you all.



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My wife took care of her father for a long time before he passed. Nothing cured her of HER ills better than Maui.

There are more children in summer. I'd see that as a positive as opposed to the gentrified late winter months.

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Some times a change of scenery is really helpful in the grieving and healing process, When my Dad died more than 30 years ago, we took my Mom with us to Victoria a few months later and she was able to relax, unwind and have fun for the first time.

She even had her first "adult beverage" (Spanish Coffee) on that trip and found an appreciation for travel, and good food (other than coffee shops) that she later explored further for 25 years with our new stepdad, who sadly also died just a couple years ago.

But she still talks about that trip and how much it helped her get back to the business of living. Mom's now almost 89, still drives and enjoys traveling.

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Sorry to hear of the lose of your father in law. A vacation with family especially after a lengthly condition can be a rejuvinating period for all involved. Sunshine can heal the soul inside and out and help a person see things in a different light. I say go for it, you only live once. Enjoy Heavan on earth :-)

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Enjoy it all.

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