ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW
Here is all the information that is needed to make the decision whether you should visit Bangkok. For the most part, it is the same information that we local people have.
If, after checking these links, you can't decide, I would say it would be a "no go". If you can't make the decision now, what will you do when you are here?
This is the TAT's map of the affected areas: thailandtourismupdate.com/crisis-version/map…
It also has links to their latest "official" statements on the matter.
Here is a map with the locations of many of Bangkok's hotels: http://www.chiangdao.com/bangkokmap/
You can scroll down on the right to find where you are staying. If your hotel isn't listed, your hotel's website should have a map. Once again, if you can't figure locations between these two maps, Bangkok might not be a good destination at this time.
Here is the news:
Besides the news, you can read comments from a range of perspectives.
Once last time. If, after checking out all this info, you still can't decide, don't bother asking. The answer is don't come.