I would like thank everyone for there great posts, I have been to Bali dozens of times and still learn new things which then enables me to see new things.
I have finally decided to up stumps in Oz and spend many relaxing years in what was my second home.
I will go for walks in rice fields in Ubud, go to cooking classes, have afternoons talking with friends on the beach, read a book or 2, go sailing, play some tennis, learn to make offering trays( there is a real art to that ), get a tan, learn to surf, not put on too much weight, ( well try not to ) have massages, go to the early morning markets, ( fresh is best ) just sit and watch the world go buy, have fun with my new kitten ( I was given one by my Bali friends a couple weeks ago for my birthday ) find a good cafe that sells hot chocolate ( don't drink coffee ), learn to have patience at the immigration office, and anything else that takes my fancy. I'm lucky at 49 years old I hope to have many many more years ahead in what I can now call my HOME.
Wishing everyone safe travels whenever and wherever you go, maybe will see some of you on the streets of Bali, look out for the very relaxed Girl from Oz with the biggest smile on her face.