I'm going to Lagos as soon as I get my visa, I'm a 23 year old white female and I'm meeting my boyfriend there. We have been together for 4 years in the UK and he had been living here for 20 years. But recently he went back to ikeja in Lagos. I completely trust him, he will be meeting me at the airport and we will be staying with his family. Most people I have spoken to have said I will be robbed, kidnapped or killed. Some people say it is toooo dangerous whereas other people tell me I'll have a lovely time. I'm not planning on travelling a lot and won't be clubbing, I just want to spend some time with him, will I be safe?