My husband and I are planning a much needed relaxing valentine's weekend trip and leaving the kiddos at home with the grandparents. We have never been to Scottsdale and are trying to figure out the best place to stay. We would prefer a larger resort (spas, restaurants, etc) and my husband will probably golf one day. Not sure if the weather will be warm enough to swim but hoping to find a place with a heated pool so that it could still potentially be an option if warm enough. We would prefer stay somewhere that is not as "family friendly" since we are leaving the kids at home that weekend.