There are four women researching a Wednesday - Saturday getaway in wine country Jan of 2011. Would like information on inns or B&Bs that are in walking distance of either Napa or Sonoma. A plus would be some that offer massage or facials as well. Given that outdoor porches at that time of year (and that it is typically rainy season) are not conducive to socializing space in the evening, rooms with a small lounge area in one or all of the rooms would be ideal. I have been to Napa before but it was a romantic anniversary trip and this is a birthday celebration. We would love recommendations for drivers for winery visits from the inn or B&B and also recommendations for good wineries for this specific group that are not pretentious yet have great varietals or blends. We are both white and red lovers...just not extremely sweet wines. Any suggestions on restaurants, music, clubs, events, etc. for this "40-ish" crowd would be great!