My husband, our 13-year-old son and I will be spending 3 days in S.F. in early July, then driving down to Monterey for a day or two, then we have essentially two days left before we leave CA. We were planning to drive from Monterey to Sonoma and spend a night in Sonoma before heading back to the Half Moon Bay area. But we'd also like to see Big Sur and Carmel. Does anyone have any advice on whether it'd be worth it for us to drive up to Sonoma if we have such a short time to spend there (probably getting there in the afternoon of one day and then leaving the next morning) as opposed to possibly driving over to Carmel and spending the night there? We thought we might do a wine tasting in Sonoma but obviously that has no appeal to our teenager so we wouldn't be doing too much of that!