I am planning a trip to Sonoma/Napa with some girlfriends. We all love wine, beautiful scenery and great food. We want to stay at a spa resort to do a little pampering. We would like to be centrally located to keep our driving trips options open. I have read mixed reviews of MacArthur, Fairmont, The Lodge, Villagio and Carneros. We don't want to be in the middle of nowhere but still like to appreciate the scenry. Can anyone comment on any of the above resorts or suggest someplace else?