My husband and I are planning a trip to San Francisco this summer for 5 nights. We will stay 2 nights in San Francisco. We've never been here before. We cannot decide on whether to stay the remaining 3 nights in Carmel or in Sonoma. We definitely want to drive along the coast and see some beautiful scenery, but we also want to visit some vineyards too. Unfortunately, we don't have time to do both. Which area do you think is better to visit? If we stayed in Sonoma would the drive along the HWY 1 north of San Francisco be as beautiful as driving south near Big Sur?