bepc10, Our daughter has stayed at The Quiet Haven many times. I believe it is Mennonite owned, therefore not the usual things you find at the name brand hotels.BUT,my daughter has said many times, it is very quiet and relaxing and that you can hear the horse and buggys clopping down the road at night. As far as the Harvest Drive, we have stayed there. The rooms were ok but we were not crazy about the food. I could find better at my local diner here in Sussex. The one thing we did like was the view of the farms from the dinning room. But that you can see anywhere out there. Sorry I can't suggest for Thanksgiving. Perhapes someelse may be able to help with that.
Another nice motel is The Orchard Inn on South Harvest Road right off of Rt.340. Nice quiet place also. Kaufmann's Food Market is at the end of Harvest Road. Very convenient. I hope this has been some help to you. What part on Jersey are you in?
God Bless,popc.