My family and I have reservations at the Grotto Bay Beach Resort for about $150 a night over Thanksgiving, but I recently saw the Fairmont Southampton is running a special where I can get the same rate there. Does anyone have any strong feelings on which one is better, particularly given we'll be there in late November when it's colder. Does either one do better with things like having an outdoor heated pool? I've read mixed reviews on the Fairmont on tripadvisor. Sounds like it's supposed to be high end luxury, and it is generally a bit more expensive, but it falls a little short of a lot of people's high expectations. Also they won't allow you to cancel your reservations there for this particular special, so I'm a little hesitant to switch our reservations until I'm sure. thanks for any info or recommendations anyone might have!