I was wondering about opinions between Virgina Beach and Ocean City Maryland. We are a family of 5 looking for a safe place with a nice beach and a hotel on the ocean. Like to go for walks at night and take the kids for treats. Kids like mini golf, waterparks and some ice cream and different type of treatplaces. Adults some times like to go out for a drink and listen to music at a nice safe type of bar. Where are we more likely to find that.