We are 4 adult couples(Late 20's to early 50's in age) with 2 older teenage children looking to go to the Outer Banks this summer (end of July/August). None of us have been here so we have no idea where to stay. We would like a nice beach, and great resturants (who dosent right?/), but is there a beach or area that is more "adult" oriented? Meaning less little children. Higher end accomidations with better non chain resturants and boutique type shopping? We typically vacation in Cape May NJ for a east cost beach trip. We DO NOT want a place like Ocean City Md or Virginia beach if this helps. Is the outer banks right for us? Thanks for any advice!!!!!