My husband and I were traveling with a 1&1/2 year old and 16 year old and were all separated. All I wanted was two of the three seats together at best because squeezing me with a toddler in a middle seat was just ridiculous. They said the flight was full and were already having problems, and others were in my situation as far as being separated. I told the woman I have a baby with me. She just gave me a look. Now upon boarding, one of the flight attendants, Kami, insisted we check a bag, that there were three adults and four carry-ons, in which my daughter had explained she only had one carry on and the small bag on her shoulder was a purse. But the flight attendant wasn't too friendly and insisted we check one of the bags. Mind you, I had all the baby necessities in these bags! Kami continued to make sarcastic comments, such as telling me I would soon have to return to my seat when I was squatting down to get something out of my bag under the seat. I said I know that and I asked if she thought I intended to stay down there. (Hello!). Then upon descending, she made a sarcastic comment about a seatbelt. "Fasten your seatbelt. The strap dangling is a dead give away it's not fastened." I just had to bite my tongue.
The plane was tight. No room to breathe. Very uncomfortable and they should not keep flight attendants that seem miserable with their job.
Overall, they are far from accommodating.