Recently, the Bachelor Forum went through a major transformation from a dingy, sleazy gay bar to an upscale, almost preppy decor. It still is the best gay male bar in Rochester - the best out of the four gay bars left in the city. The third Saturday night of the month is still the busiest, when it is Bar Nite - sponsored by Rams - the local gay motorcycle/leather club. Bar Nite attracts the gay male community from Buffalo to Syracuse and beyond. Once a month is Bear Nite (I believe it is the second Saturday of each month), sponsored by Empire Bears. There are other special events throughout the year. Of particular note is Halloween, New Year's Eve, and when the clocks get set back an hour in the fall. Friday happy hour around 5:30-7:30 PM is when the bar is friendliest. It can be cliquey at other times. Mostly a 30's, 40's, and 50's crowd.
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